Leah
Anmeldungsdatum: 03.09.2008
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 Verfasst am: 19. Feb 2009 18:50 Titel: bitte NUR nachgucken :) |
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Hi,
und zwar sollten wir einen komenatr zu einem thema schreiben, welches wir unter den drei gegebenen themen aussuchen durfeten. Ich hab das Thema ´´intermarriage´´ gewählt.
Nun das problem ist ich hab nie zu vor einen so langen kommentar auf englisch geschrieben. Nun weiß ichauch nicht ob es richtig oder falsch ist.
kurz gesagt ich bräuchte eure hilfe es zu korrigieren..BITTE BittE bIttE !!!
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As we know from the article´´ Down in the North´´ that intermarriage is in demand because of that some immigrants are highly integrated. But i cannot belive that through the intermarriage immigrants are more assosieted than before. i think they will still be a stranger somewhere. This problem could be solved probbably when the next (three or four ) generations won´t be a mixing up marriage of two different countries. Furthermore, there is another problem in reffer to intermarriage: Both, the foreigner as well as the own inhabiter parents, so the older generation would be worried about their (grant-)children. The fear about loosing ,on the one hand their children and on the other hand their tradition and culture would be follow them.And another point of view would be the worries because of their own surrounding society, e.g. What they would think about them? or what kind of rumour will be ?.When we have a closer look into an intermarriage relationship there could also be problems. But this problems wouldn´t be the common qurrels like in every marriage, it would be a different reason: The reason could be, beside the tradition and cultural difference, also the religious aspect.And if one of the partners don´t be so tolerante to make it up, this problem would get worse. And it would be painful for every member of the family, specially more painful for the children. this would be the other perspective of the intermarriage problem. As far as i can see in comparison the younger generation haven´t any problems to get an intermarriage than the older one´s. There is no question why is that so, because currently most of the younger person havn´t any problem to live with a person from another country. They even doesn´t care about their skin colour or ancestry in contrast the older generation. And this argument shows another aspect why the older one´s won´t have an intermarriage, it could be because of loosing the own races some time. And this fear make them feel more uncomfortable against living in another country because propabbly to not recogze this intermarriage child its own.
Finally, an extreme case : Recently there are unfurtunately another frightful problem which is possible to be confronted with it. These are marriages which is based on an act to live in better country with propabbly better living condtions in comparison to their countries.
so they just marry a person for money or they lie this person just to be an integrated citizen. After they achieve their aim there are many following problems. As a result i am not obligatory for an intermarriage as well as am i even not against either because everybody have to decide it on their ownselves which is right or wrong for their life. To my mind is this family aspect more important than every each stuff like love..because for me respect and trust have more value than the love stuff because it isn´t existing for ever. But thinking before marring couldn´t be wrong for everyone |
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